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Adjusting to Life in France
This is, of course, the primary concern of any parent introducing
a non-French speaking child into the French education system.
Not only have you whisked your child away from their friends
and familiar routines you have brought them to a new country
and a new home and now you are asking them to learn a new language
so they can make friends and get at school!
Moral support
Luckily unless you are in an extremely remote part of France
you will almost certainly meet other expats who have been through
the challenges before and can provide moral support and encouragement
as you go along.
With continuing numbers of foreigners arriving (especially
from Northern Europe), teachers and administrators are becoming
more familiar with non-French speaking children so your child
will not be seen as a curiosity item. However the French are
proud of their language and their traditions and not surprisingly
French schools teach all lessons in French! In other words, you
should not expect too many concessions if the teachers
speak some English and are willing to spend extra time with your
child this should be seen as a bonus, not a typical arrangement.
The earlier the better
Generally, children starting early in primary school learn
French quickly, are communicating well within a few months and
are often reported to be "fluent" speakers within 6-12
months. This is very exciting and rewarding for everyone however
it can of course bring about unforeseen challenges for parents
whose brain cells are not absorbing a new language nearly as
quickly as their kids. And unless you speak excellent French
yourself you are not going to be in a position to judge for yourself
just how fluent your child really is - there's a big difference
between fluent chatter amongst playground friends and truly fluent
use of the correct grammar, accents, and so on.
Depending on your child's age and knowledge of French, you
may find that they are asked to start school a year lower than
their French speaking peer group. This is designed to speed the
learning of French language (reading and writing) without the
children being overtaxed by new concepts. This may also help
with confidence generally as they should find the tasks they
are set very easy to begin with.
Starting in a lower year may not cause any reactions from
a six year old but older children may hate the idea of going
in with younger kids so some salesmanship may be required! Luckily
there is a high degree of flexibility built into the French system
so most children will find themselves placed in the right academic
year once they are speaking and reading adequately.
In some areas schools run free initiation classes which provide
intensive language tuition for non-French speaking children
it may even be a requirement for some children wishing to enter
secondary education.
Teenagers take time
Children over ten years of age take longer to adapt and learn
a new language and although most progress and become fluent,
they are unlikely to speak French as adults without some detectable
accent.
All children are different and will react to the new situation
in different ways, however it may be worthwhile or necessary
to arrange some out of hours tutoring to kick-start a slow-learner
or just give a boost to older children. It is not usually too
difficult to find language teachers by asking at the local Syndicat
d'Initiative or at your school.
Some parents moving to France with teenage children have opted
to send their children to international bi-lingual schools initially
before considering a move into the state system, but obviously
such a move will depend on where you live and your finances.
f you are planning a move to Franch for many months or years
ahead, then you should try to ensure your child makes use of
the time before moving to take extra French lessons, including
conversation practice - this will pay off enormosuly when you
do move.
Outside school
Ideally, children (and adults) should try to engage in local
French life not just as a social outlet but in order to stretch
children's language abilities in non-classroom and non-playground
environments. This can be as simple as visiting the local shops,
fetes or attending a sports or arts class where children must
communicate in French.
If you have access to both French and English language TV,
it would be preferable to get your children to watch French language
kids TV to help them pick up phrases and absorb kids culture.
When young children are starting to learn French, some school
teachers have advised parents not to try and speak French at
home. This may seem counter-intuitive but has been suggested
simply to avoid overloading the young brains after a day of French
at school.
Homework is a great opportunity not just for parents to help
their child but to learn new words, expressions themselves and
do exercises together.
Source: WorldLanguage.com |